My friend Laurie who blogs at Life on the Bike and Other Fab Things had a birthday recently. It wasn’t one of those ‘significant’ events but still, I felt it was time for me to celebrate this amazing woman.
I met her via another mutual friend, the delightful Boomedeadda who noted on her blog when Laurie had sustained horrific injuries when her bike was crashed into by a car. It took pretty much two years for Laurie to rebuild her body and her life after this event – but one of the wonderful things that came out of the whole awful thing was that a lovely friendship built up and grew. Laurie was one of the bloggers I flew to the US to meet up with two years ago.
Let me tell you just a little about this woman and why her painting looks as it does. Laurie is a full time, sought after Nurse Practitioner. Her patients adore her and rely on her. Her work is demanding, with long hours and high standards of professionalism to adhere to. Despite this, being aware there is a dearth of women in politics in the US, two years ago Laurie ran for her State Legislature on the Democratic ticket, in an area that historically voted Republican and male. She narrowly missed out on winning. (She now actively supports the latest, male, candidate in his bid.)
An active member of her local community over many years Laurie’s dedication and pride in her town and the surrounding areas was palpable when I visited. She takes an active part in the ‘Ride of Silence’ every year. A thoughtful and touching tribute to those who have lost their lives in cycling accidents and a punchy reminder to everyone else of how quickly these events happen, how devastating they are for family and friends and how often these avoidable accidents occur.
Despite her active civic and political life Laurie has a huge circle of friends, a busy ‘things to do’ schedule that leaves me gasping for breath and needing a cup of tea and a wee lie down just hearing about AND a big red truck and a big red motor bike – a Harley Davidson no less.
This tiny, feisty, beautiful brunette drives or rides about with her camera and takes fabulous photos wherever she goes. And then, when she has a moment she blogs about her rides, drives, trips and adventures. She is positive, upbeat, cute, funny, capable, energetic and motivated – she’s pretty jolly amazing really!
Laurie makes a difference – She works hard, knows how to play and enjoy herself and cares about her community, her family, her many friends and her country.
And this is what I wanted to hint at in her painting – she’s a Woman Who Can – and she does!!
If you haven’t met her yet, pop on over and say hello, tell her I sent you if you like – I know you’ll love her, just like I do.
This is a mixed media painting on 300 gsm media paper, size A3.
Thanks for coming by today, I love that you did!
I got to see this in person and all I can say is “WOW” you have really captured our friend!
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Oh, I’m so glad to hear that – thank you!! 🙂
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Maybe that’s why I’m not well-behaved!
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Because you ARE making history! ❤
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Yeah, you go girl
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She sounds like a true gem, Pauline! What a wonderful and special friend. I love the painting and the quote, I had not heard that one before – well behaved and boring, who needs it, ha! Very nice 😀
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It’s a great quote isn’t it Lana 🙂 Laurie is quite incredible! ❤
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It surely is, and it’s nice to have good friends 😀
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Cheers to Maureen’s effort and to those like her. … and to you for promoting her. 🙂 … Hi Pauline!
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PS: (How could I forget) … Also well done on the gift of art. Your style is evident. Cheers to your effort as well!
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Thanks Frank 🙂
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Hi Frank! It’s all about Laurie actually, so I see that promotion didn’t work 🙂 Lovely to see you drop by, does this mean your blogging break is coming to an end?
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Oh my, my … where did I get “Maureen” in my head? Sorry about that. A toast to Laurie!
I told myself I wouldn’t post again until I visited first …. so the pressure is on to visit a few each day. 🙂 …. today is the first.
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what a beautiful story and painting to your amazing friend! Loved the story and what a great tribute!!!!!! You have a gift for words as well as paint pauline:-)
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Thank you Robbie 🙂 She’s a great gal, doing good things in the world and such people should be in the headlines 🙂
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it would be a pleasure to read more positive news about good people that bashing people all the time:-)
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oops meant all the “bashing” or negative news we read about how bad people are all the time….that would be so nice!!!!!
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lol…I am having one of those days….it would be a pleasure to hear about good people in the news doing good things rather than “bad” things about people in the news all the time……( long sigh)…a year old and I can see my brain does not work as well as it use to-LOL
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Lol!! See where rushing gets us 🙂 I knew what you meant though.
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🙂 exactly!!!
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What a lovely tribute and a fabulous picture. off to follow Laurie, because if you say it’s worth it, I know it is 🙂
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I’m sure you will enjoy trying to keep up with her 🙂
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This was a particularly fascinating portrait of a real, three-dimensional person! Laurie sounds like an awesome and amazing person
Pauline, your artwork is a wondrous gift! xo 🙂
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I’m glad you were able to see Laurie’s roundness as a human being from my words and art Robin. You said it perfectly – she really is awesome and amazing 🙂
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Your description made her sound like such a giver and giving person. I liked “meeting” her in your painting, too. 🙂
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Pauline’s work is indeed, as you say, a “wondrous gift”. I’m honored
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What a lovely tribute to friendship and a remarkable woman, in both words and image. Thanks for introducing us to Laurie, Pauline. Some people seem to achieve so much. I’m sure their clocks run on a different speed from those of most of us.
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I agree Norah – even when I was at my most overachieving best I’m sure I didn’t manage half what Laurie packs into a day! I’m so glad you enjoyed meeting her!
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Thank you, Norah and Pauline ❤
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Wow and wow……a lovely post for a lovely person. Would you like to be on that motorbike?
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I think my motorbike days are over Gallivanta – though there’s a small part of me that cries “Oh, no they aren’t!” 🙂
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Me too. 😀 😀
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Lovely tribute to a special friend. Hurrah for blogging, I say!
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Isn’t it great! I do love how it has widened my perspective on so many things and introduced me to some fabulous people whom I just wouldn’t have had the opportunity to meet otherwise. Whether one ‘meets’ through the written word or in the flesh seems to be immaterial………
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Blogging has been such an unexpected gift! ❤
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Pauline, what magic. You’ve captured the essence of Laurie, both in words and in art. I too had the chance to drink in your beautiful art on FB. One of the things that I love about your art, is that I notice something else each time I look at it. The piece washes over me, and then I think “oh look” and “Oh yes!” and “there is another detail”…like the crowds at the bottom. Such a lovely gift. beautiful art, amazing friendships. Thank you, WordPress for bringing us all together.xo
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Thank you Alys – you are very kind 🙂 All those cheering crowds at the bottom represent how I think of Laurie going about in the world – everyone is always so happy to see her. Like a rock star! What you can’t see in the photo is all the glittery glimmery bits – for instance her bike exhaust exhumes little dots of glimmery stuff that then floats off around the canvas. It’s a metaphor…. 😀
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Pauline, you are so right. Everyone is happy to see her. I love the glimmering exhaust and will now have another look now that you’ve pointed that out. It’s a great metaphor.
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I’m so glad I came to read the comments: I’d not seen the crowds at the bottom OR the glimmery emissions from the tailpipe.
The painting truly is a wonder and I feel so honored by this gift. Alys, i know you get that as you have a Pauline original, too.
Pauline, your comments about me are too generous, but as one who tends to be self critical, it was nice to read. I just hope all the visitors to your blog focused on your art, more than your tribute to me.
Just so you’ll know: I plan to post about this gift but will probably not reblog this post for fear that someone will think me “all about me”.
So much love to both you and Alys!
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I’m so glad you wandered over and joined in the conversation, what fun!
I could have waxed much more lyrical about you Laurie, but I know how uncomfortable it makes you, so I stuck with the bare facts 🙂 I’m glad you could enjoy reading this post, it’s important that we become comfortable seeing ourselves as others see us. I wonder why we are all so quick to mark ourselves harshly, and so reluctant to celebrate our worth…….. We here celebrate you, YAY LAURIE!! 🙂 You could just put a link to this post on your post – this is just one person’s viewpoint, added to by some others via comments – and most importantly it tries to explain why the painting looks as it does. I’m sure Alys agrees with me, don’t you Alys?
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Laurie, I do get it. I love my original painting, and feel honored that Pauline would put so much time, talent and love into it. Using my dad’s stamps was inspired as well. Your painting is gorgeous. I imagine it was quite the surprise when you opened it.
I will look forward to your “it’s not all about me” post with the art, but honestly you earned every word here. Pauline captured your essence beautifully. xo
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Thanks for your thoughts, my friends. Check out my post!
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I’ve just been for an enjoyable visit! I don’t know how you are fitting all of this in, but I’m always so happy to see your posts.
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Yay, Laurie, who has so much good energy. I really like the motorbike ride-off and that quote–well-behaved women rarely make history. Laurie is a dynamo.
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She sure is – I call her my ‘little Energiser Bunny’ Did you have that advertisement for that brand of batteries in the States? Laurie just goes and goes and goes and keeps on going….. 🙂
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Yes! we had the energizer bunny too! Funny the people you meet who remind you of it…
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Globalisation makes it possible to have the oddest connections 🙂 Hows the moving going?
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That quote is absolutely one of my favorites, and was showcased in my office until I moved to the new practice. Pauline, I’m so glad that you included it
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Did I know that Laurie? Dear god, my memory is going ….. 🙂
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I love this, Pauline! A wonderful tribute to your friend.
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Thank you Jill ❤
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She sounds amazing and what a lovely tribute to her. The painting has a world of colour and love in it.
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I rather think you would like her very much Shehanne – you two would get on well! 🙂
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She sounds like my kind of lady xxxxx
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Shehanne, Isn’t Pauline just a talented, visionary artist? ❤
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Now that’s going a mite too far Laurie! 😀
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Indeed she is xxx
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What an amazing tribute to Laurie! And, of course, she deserves it so fully–her story inspires on so many levels! You’re a very good friend, Pauline . . .
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Thank you Kerry. Laurie is very special!
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She is SUCH a good friend, Kerry, you are so right!
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Wonderful tribute, Pauline. I hadn’t known about the accident. The bike section in the painting captures Laurie riding off beautifully.
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Thanks Derrick, I wanted to paint her riding away on her bike – but man those bikes are hard to draw – so complex! It always ended up looking like a child’s trike – so I stuck with the rear view 🙂
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Oh I loved reading that, Pauline. Interesting about the challenge of drawing the bike from a different angle.
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Darn thing has too many mechanical bits showing – I’d have to take a course in mechanics to be able to understand what I was trying to reproduce and that’s working off a reference photo! Please – take up skateboarding!
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I got a peak at your fab canvas on FB and thought you’d really captured the essence of our little dynamo. Now reading these words, I think, how does she manage all this? Have you ever, I mean, ever, met anyone with so many balls in the air and able to do it with so much passion, good humour and zeal for life? LB is the real mccoy. I sometimes marvel at my great good fortune of making these connections I cherish here at WordPress. What were the chances? Cheers to WP and the woman I admire endlessly, including you dear P. I’m blessed. xo K
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Yes, so very many balls and still so much passion and zeal for life as you say. It’s inspiring isn’t it. I’m happy just to sit and watch her do it though 🙂 We do get the most wonderful opportunities to connect with people from all over the globe – and some just stick! I too cherish my sticky friends 🙂
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I am constantly amazed at the good fortune and immense blessing of our friendships. Love you both!
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❤ ❤ ❤ across the miles!
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You really wrote Laurie perfectly and so is the painting!!!! It is so her. What a lovely thing you have done here. I did not yet hear that she lost the election. I think she would be a force to be reckoned with. We need more intelligent people with heart in office. I loved the bike and her holding her drink here. I started following her a while after her accident but like the trooper she is, she got right back on that bike taking life on with both fists. It’s a beautiful piece and I know she will love it. Hugs, M
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Thank you Marlene – it’s lovely that those who know Laurie too recognise her incredible abilities and gifts. She’s a wonder!
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That she is and so are you. You just are wonderful differently.
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🙂
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You are right, Marlene, on two counts: I DO love the painting and Pauline IS wonderful ❤
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By golly, yes I am 😀
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I’m left breathless by reading all about Laurie. How inspirational.
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Exactly! She is isn’t she – and this isn’t half the story!
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What a wonderful tribute to your friend in visual art and writing.
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Hello Laura – I’ve been missing your posts! She’s worthy of many tributes I think 🙂
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impressive
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She is Maureen!
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What a lovely tribute!
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Thank you Sarah, it’s heartfelt!
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